She came from a background where nothing was ever good enough, and, that was something that weighed heavy on her, but in our house together there was this sense of just trying stuff and allowing each other to fail and to be excited about things. That was liberating for her. It was exciting to see her grow. Both of us grew and changed together. But you know, that’s also the hard part. Growing without or growing apart or changing without it scaring the other person.